LANGUAGE?!?! YES...NO?!?!

THANK YOU...first of all for joining this group and secondly for taking the time to read this post...

So the subject for this post is the language that we hear around us that we may or may not agree with. Personally I HATE when "men" (and i just used that very loosely) call women the b****es...and what is even worse than that is when the women just accept that or even further degrade themselves by resorting to using that word to refer to themselves...(such as calling someone the baddest b or people referring to their friends as their b's) now personally i would never call my friends that and i would ABSOLUTELY NEVER respond (at least not positively) to someone using that word to refer to me...another word that i don't particularly like is the n-word...now i know a lot of people that use it and i have family members that use it...however i just don't like it...it does not, nor ever will have a positive connotation attached to it and to try and give it one, in my opinion, is ridiculous. Damon Wayans wanted to name a clothing line that word and nas wanted to title his new album the n-word...i don't understand why? i hope that one could be more imaginitive and have a greater vocabulary than to resort to the use of that word...I just don't understand...

please give your opinion/ perspective of this issue...

thank you and GOD BLESS

-neosoul